I'm sure you would like this affair your wife is having to come to an end. If you want your wife back, and the spark that your marriage once had to be there again, there is help for you. Yes, that means you don't have to struggle with repeated failures to figure out on your own how to repair the damage that is now apparent in your marriage.
This post is about repairing the damage caused by the affair, saving your marriage and making it stronger than ever as a whole. If you are heavily contemplating divorcing her, please reconsider. I have the answer you are desperately seeking.
> My Wife Had An Affair, What Do I Do To Save My Marriage?
The most regular approach taken upon hearing or seeing that your wife is having an affair would be to give her the most severe tongue lashing that she has ever gotten. Openly expressing your sadness, rage, betrayal etc. It is a natural instinct because of the hurt you are feeling.
However, when it comes to improving your marriage, you can't keep up this sort of behavior, since it will do more harm than good.
So what do you do? Well, getting the affair stopped, saving your marriage, making your wife love you for you again, ensuring the affair doesn't recur, and as a result making your marriage become the envy of many, is about doing certain things in a specific order.
The system developed by Dr. Frank Gunzberg by the name of "How To Survive An Affair" goes into fine detail about what these things are, and the order in which they should be done.
One of the first actions the How To Survive An Affair system encourages you to take, which is considered imperative, before moving on to discuss the affair with your wife, is that you must keep those tense emotions, and negative thoughts in check.
> Healing Yourself is The First Step
Basically you must heal yourself before you and your wife can work as a couple to heal your marriage. If this is done in reverse, progress in your relationship will most likely be undermined or stunted, due to the chances of you losing your cool when you get into the nitty-gritty about the affair with her.
How To Survive An Affair is all about healing yourself, healing your marriage as a couple, ensuring that the romantic bond you and your wife once shared is rekindled. Your marriage will also have an unrivaled level of transparency. The type of transparency between your wife and yourself that was never really there to begin with. The type of transparency that will ensure your wife becomes and remains faithful to you, and empathetic to your feelings.
If that is what you want in your marriage then How To Survive An Affair is worth a look at least.
So for those seeking the answers to, "my wife had an affair, what do I do now?" and "How do I save my marriage?"
It may very well be the answer you are seeking.